UMB has set out family financial planning considerations for households supporting both younger and older generations, including the distinction between giving money and lending it. Its June 30, 2026 article focuses on defining the purpose and duration of support alongside the household’s other financial commitments.

For assistance to young adults, the bank recommends making expectations explicit: what the money will cover, whether the help is one-time or short-term, and whether it is a gift or a loan. Where the arrangement is a loan, its guidance calls for agreement about repayment.

UMB places those conversations within a broader view of the family’s budget, savings, investments and retirement accounts. The needs can differ substantially by recipient, from education and housing costs for younger adults to medical or home-care expenses for older parents.

The article names health savings accounts, flexible spending accounts and 529 education plans as examples of tools

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